Parent to Parent of New York State Board Members

Joseph Ball

Board Member | Western NY

Joe and his wife Linda are the proud and loving parents of three grown children, Lisa, Kevin, and Kelly, and three grandchildren. Their son Kevin has the diagnosed developmental disability of Angelman’s Syndrome. Kevin resides in a group home close to his parents’ home and visits them often.

Joe has been involved with organizations and activities that aid and assist the disabled community for 30 years. This service includes 15 years as a Parent Member of the Committee on Special Education in his local school district as well as service as a member of the Informed Consent Committees for OPWDD’s Western NY Regional Office and the non-profits People Incorporated and Person Centered Services. Joe has also been involved with the Developmental Disabilities Alliance of Western NY and the Region 1 Family Support Services Council.

Joe Ball worked as the Facilities Manager at Buffalo State College prior to retirement and holds a bachelor’s degree in Criminal Justice. He has enjoyed volunteering with adaptive ice skating organizations and youth baseball.

Sara Du Terroil

Board Member | Hudson Valley

Sara Du Terroil is a mother of three, disability and healthcare advocate, and licensed insurance consultant working to improve access to necessary care. She founded her business, Autism Insurance Consulting, to help individual families understand and assert their healthcare rights, especially for mental and behavioral health. Sara is also a seasoned legislative policy advocate around disability rights, including the advancement of care systems that work for, and protect, those with complex needs.

Sara is mom to a loving and funny young man with autism, cortical visual impairment and intellectual disability, and his younger brother and sister who have taken the ups and downs of the family journey in their stride. In advocating for her son’s complex medical, behavioral and educational needs, Sara has found great strength in the wider disability community.

Sara began her advocacy career as a labor law attorney in the United Kingdom where her work included appeals and grievances, discrimination cases, employment policies and procedures, and management development trainings. She was seconded by her law firm to act as in-house counsel for a year and a half at a government-owned non-profit organization.

She moved to her husband’s hometown of San Antonio, Texas in 2006. In Texas, Sara served on the Governmental Affairs committee of the Arc of Texas and worked with her local Arc chapter in San Antonio to train other parents in legislative policy advocacy. She served as a parent advisor to a non-profit foundation developing a one-stop connect program to autism services city-wide. In preparing for her move to NY in 2018, Sara was grateful to be connected with a Parent to Parent of NYS support parent who shared her experience of an adolescent child with challenging behavior.

Keeping physically and mentally fit is important to Sara and she enjoys yoga, tennis, hiking and biking with her family. She still has her British sense of humor and it has definitely been helpful on this journey! Sara is happy to have the chance to serve Parent to Parent of NYS in its mission of connecting and empowering families, which is a vital need in our diverse disability community.

Michelle Fidler-Sutherland

Board Member | Western NY

Michelle lives in Monroe County with her husband and their children. She is a dedicated and passionate advocate for individuals with disabilities and looks forward to her service on the Parent to Parent of NYS Board of Directors.

Michelle’s work as a voice for those with developmental challenges began shortly following her youngest son’s diagnosis with autism in 2001. Later her son developed pronounced behaviors and epilepsy that compounded his challenges. Michelle recognized a lack of adequate support for families with children who possess severe behavioral challenges and understands the immense struggles parents who have children with complex disabilities face. Consequently, she is a strong advocate for supports for parents and individuals with behavioral challenges.

Michelle consistently translates her passion and tenacity for assisting those with developmental disabilities and their families into involvement and action. Michelle is a Support Parent for Parent to Parent of NYS and feels that being able to reach out and connect with other parents is essential. She has been a member of several committees and currently is also councilmember of the Region One Family Support Advisory Council, for which she serves as Chairperson of their subcommittee on behaviors. Furthermore, Michelle serves as a Lay Advocate and a Parent Representative and is also a graduate of the Partners in Policymaking spring class of 2015.

Michelle’s personal experience, coupled with her service through multitude committees and organizational memberships, gives her a broad base of knowledge from which she is able to draw when working to understand and assist families. She is a valuable and accessible resource for parents with children who struggle with behaviors and those who have difficulty finding appropriate supports. Consistently dedicated to advocating for families and individuals, Michelle seeks to proactively expand access and quality of services for families and individuals who are most in need.

Lizette Hernandez

Treasurer | New York City

Lizette Hernandez is a mother of three and advocate for her children with disabilities, a daughter who struggles with Dyslexia and a son who is living with Autism. Born and raised in the Bronx, Lizette has a desire to serve her community and give back. The Bronx is by far one of the most underserved boroughs in New York, and Lizette is always looking for opportunities to offer more services for children with Autism.

After her son Donovan showed interest in playing baseball, Lizette started her own Challenger baseball league as she was not able to find a place in her community for him to play. The league has been very successful and now boasts 120 participants. Once the first season of baseball was over, Lizette felt a void that she needed to fill so she founded D3 Sports and Recreation, Inc. This non-profit organization seeks to bring additional sports and recreational opportunities to children with disabilities.

Since her son Donovan’s diagnosis Lizette has been a strong advocate and fundraiser within the Autism community. She has hosted the Annual Kids Rock Karaoke event which raises money to fund Autism services. As a parent Lizette is aware of both the costs of therapies and the lack of programs tailored for children on the spectrum. It is very important that services be free or at very low cost to families and her fundraising contributes to that effort.

Lizette is a graduate of John Jay College of Criminal Justice, where she majored in Deviant Behavior and Social Control. After college, Lizette worked for Grand Street Settlement, a community based organization located in the Lower East Side, as the Training Coordinator for the Adolescent Sexual Health Initiative. After the birth of her first child, she decided to take some time off and left the organization. Soon she was back into the workforce and changed careers. She became a controller and office manager for a Construction Management Company, where she manages the finances for four separate entities.

In her role as a board member for Parent to Parent of NYS, Lizette hopes to bring her love, passion, knowledge and experience in advocating for children with disabilities to help inform others on how to advocate for their loved ones.

Deborah A. Napolitano, Ph.D

Board Member | Western NY

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Susan Platkin, M.D.

Board Member | Long Island

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Ann Scherff

President | Western NY

As a member of the organization’s Board of Directors since 2005, Ann sees Parent to Parent of NYS as an organization that actively seeks to support the parents and caregivers of people with disabilities. Because of the organization, she believes that parents learn that they are not alone or unique and can find comfort and emotional support from other parents.

Ann thinks that potential board members should have a basic knowledge of services and service systems for families and people with disabilities. They should be familiar with Parent to Parent of NYS and they should be a parent or have a family member with disabilities. Having a willingness to be a team member and collaborate with other board members in working with the Executive Director is crucial. Board members must be supportive of Parent to Parent of NYS within their community and value it as a resource for parents and family members in NYS.

Ann has resides in Western NY and has five children and three grandsons. Her three sons have developmental disabilities, and additionally, she is legal guardian for another relative who has a disability.

Ann is a lifelong learner and seeks to support positive changes and inclusive opportunities for people of all ability levels. She considers herself a “bridge builder” and works to be collaborative in her relationships across systems and within systems in an effort to support positive changes for people with disabilities. She works to keep her focus on the “whole system” knowing it is not about just her and or her family, but, about all the sons, daughters and families who are seeking a quality of life for their family members with disabilities and/or special health care needs.

Ann contacted Parent to Parent for support when it was first started under Easter Seals. She became a volunteer Support Parent and then added Board Member as a part of that process. Each step of her journey with Parent to Parent has been a supportive and positive experience. Ann recognizes it is important for families to have an opportunity to learn experts in various fields, but also from other parents. From Ann: “I think it is important for families to have different sources of information as they make decisions for their sons and daughters. Their lives may be “richer” in the long run!”

Rabbi Simcha Weinstein

Board Member | New York City

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